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If it’s their first wedding and they are sub 30 you load up and look after them.
It’s pretty easy to do.
You wont even notice the missing $500 in 4 weeks, but they sure as hell will.
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If it’s their first wedding and they are sub 30 you load up and look after them. It’s pretty easy to do. You wont even notice the missing $500 in 4 weeks, but they sure as hell will.
$500.. as if!!!
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You serious? As a couple $500 is nothing.
If the wedding couple are lucky it will cover the cost of us being there.
If one of the parents paid for the wedding it will help set them up when combined with 50 other contributions.
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You serious? As I couple $500 is nothing.
If the wedding couple are lucky it will cover the cost of us being there. If one of the parents paid for the wedding it will help set them up when combined with 50 other contributions.
Absolutely serious. As others have said, weddings aren’t about making money (or breaking even). If money is tight then you most certainly shouldn’t be spending $25k-$30k to get married.
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I’m with you there.
People overspend.
I’ve been to a wedding that would have cost $1500 per head.
Greatest wedding I’ve ever been to.
On the lawn the 80 or so guests slammed down 24k of Krug in 45 minutes. But the guy could afford it.
But just because someone went overboard I’m not going to give them a quick pick out of spite.
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It’s about making decisions that are sensible, if you need money off your guests to pay for the wedding you should not be having an expensive wedding in the first place, youngsters today want everything immediately, seem to think its their right. Wake up ppl.
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People mention “x” for singles and “2x” for couples. What if you are a single income family?
For me, it depends, but it’ll rarely be more than $100 in cash or gifts.
You don’t get married for the presents off people, and if you need others to offset the cost, then you can’t afford it. It’s a bit like the baby bonus… if you need it to have the baby, then you are already in too deep…
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People mention “x” for singles and “2x” for couples. What if you are a single income family? For me, it depends, but it’ll rarely be more than $100 in cash or gifts. You don’t get married for the presents off people, and if you need others to offset the cost, then you can’t afford it. It’s a bit like the baby bonus… if you need it to have the baby, then you are already in too deep…
Hear, hear
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The bottom line is it’s a gift, a present that you are giving to a family member or good friend, cause chances are you won’t be there unless you are important to the couple. The question and answer is based around what you think is a fair present, and as it turns out the accepted response to the best of my understanding is in and around what you think the cost for your seat may be, but it is ultimately a gift.
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Yeah but where you come from Kiwi, blokes are just marrying their sisters, so all the money is kept in the family at least.
you have me confused with a taswegian
any one else heading home to get married??
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generally we give $300 at weddings.
“I work with retards, Those goofy bastards are about the best thing I’ve got going.” – Pat Healy – “There’s Something About Mary”
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People mention “x” for singles and “2x” for couples. What if you are a single income family? For me, it depends, but it’ll rarely be more than $100 in cash or gifts. You don’t get married for the presents off people, and if you need others to offset the cost, then you can’t afford it. It’s a bit like the baby bonus… if you need it to have the baby, then you are already in too deep… Hear, hear Titleist 910D3 Aldila RIP 60
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Baby bonus, new house bonus, time off with baby bonus, wedding gifts of cash, don’t ppl take responsibility for their own lives anymore. if you can’t afford it don’t have it, simple.
I will break 90 this year.
It is NOT my age.
It is NOT for 9 holes.
I demand to be reinstated as reserve moderator(unofficial)
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People mention “x” for singles and “2x” for couples. What if you are a single income family? For me, it depends, but it’ll rarely be more than $100 in cash or gifts. You don’t get married for the presents off people, and if you need others to offset the cost, then you can’t afford it. It’s a bit like the baby bonus… if you need it to have the baby, then you are already in too deep… Hear, hear Titleist 910D3 Aldila RIP 60
Titleist 910Fd Aldila RIP 60
Titleist 909H Adilda Voodoo
Titleist 710 AP1 Nippon NS Pro 105T
Vokey Spin Milled Oil Can 52, 56, 60
Scotty Cameron Studio Select Newport
Pro V1x Baby bonus, new house bonus, time off with baby bonus, wedding gifts of cash, don’t ppl take responsibility for their own lives anymore. if you can’t afford it don’t have it, simple. I will break 90 this year.
That’s a bit much Tol, they need that new suite, new second car, the boat, the four wheel drive ,a new kitchen and a back yard that looks like the Botanical Gardens.
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People mention “x” for singles and “2x” for couples. What if you are a single income family? For me, it depends, but it’ll rarely be more than $100 in cash or gifts. You don’t get married for the presents off people, and if you need others to offset the cost, then you can’t afford it. It’s a bit like the baby bonus… if you need it to have the baby, then you are already in too deep… Hear, hear Titleist 910D3 Aldila RIP 60
Titleist 910Fd Aldila RIP 60
Titleist 909H Adilda Voodoo
Titleist 710 AP1 Nippon NS Pro 105T
Vokey Spin Milled Oil Can 52, 56, 60
Scotty Cameron Studio Select Newport
Pro V1x Baby bonus, new house bonus, time off with baby bonus, wedding gifts of cash, don’t ppl take responsibility for their own lives anymore. if you can’t afford it don’t have it, simple. I will break 90 this year.
Tol, it becomes fun when the cost of living has changed ever so slightly since you first landed in Oz?
are the prices of stuff similar? Stuff like luxury items like petrol or a train ticket to town, stuff like a 800sqm block of land? They are al the same as what they were back then aren’t they?
You’d be happy for your son, and his children to grow up without any assistance like you mentioned wouldn’t you? Or are they correct in raking responsibility for themselves and pay what you had to when you came here ???.....
Have you come here to play Jesus, with the leopards in your head
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generally we give $300 at weddings. “I work with retards, Those goofy bastards are about the best thing I’ve got going.” – Pat Healy – “There’s Something About Mary”
Is it too late to retrospectively invite you to my wedding in 1994?
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generally we give $300 at weddings. “I work with retards, Those goofy bastards are about the best thing I’ve got going.” – Pat Healy – “There’s Something About Mary”
How much will you give me for renewing my vows? I’ve beat the odds thus far on already being divorced so that would be worth something! ;)
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good wedding present
the documentation for divorce
may yopung ones these days cant last more then 2 months before they get the divorce happening
so why not give the divorce documents as a wedding present
may just save a few of these marriages
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generally we give $300 at weddings. “I work with retards, Those goofy bastards are about the best thing I’ve got going.” – Pat Healy – “There’s Something About Mary”
Is it too late to retrospectively invite you to my wedding in 1994? NAGA-free in 013. Smoldy. Yeah.
Multiplied by CPI index (averaged) x 19 years, I reckon he owes you $517.47 Goldmember.
Runner up (with Mark Gibson), 3 legged race, North Ainslie Primary School athletics carnival, 1966.
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People mention “x” for singles and “2x” for couples. What if you are a single income family? For me, it depends, but it’ll rarely be more than $100 in cash or gifts. You don’t get married for the presents off people, and if you need others to offset the cost, then you can’t afford it. It’s a bit like the baby bonus… if you need it to have the baby, then you are already in too deep… Hear, hear Titleist 910D3 Aldila RIP 60
Titleist 910Fd Aldila RIP 60
Titleist 909H Adilda Voodoo
Titleist 710 AP1 Nippon NS Pro 105T
Vokey Spin Milled Oil Can 52, 56, 60
Scotty Cameron Studio Select Newport
Pro V1x Baby bonus, new house bonus, time off with baby bonus, wedding gifts of cash, don’t ppl take responsibility for their own lives anymore. if you can’t afford it don’t have it, simple. I will break 90 this year.
That’s a bit much Tol, they need that new suite, new second car, the boat, the four wheel drive ,a new kitchen and a back yard that looks like the Botanical Gardens.
Sorry China, how could I be so silly to forget all those essentials.
I will break 90 this year.
It is NOT my age.
It is NOT for 9 holes.
I demand to be reinstated as reserve moderator(unofficial)
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So much bitterness from all the old diggers on here, oh so much bitterness….
Have you come here to play Jesus, with the leopards in your head
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People mention “x” for singles and “2x” for couples. What if you are a single income family? For me, it depends, but it’ll rarely be more than $100 in cash or gifts. You don’t get married for the presents off people, and if you need others to offset the cost, then you can’t afford it. It’s a bit like the baby bonus… if you need it to have the baby, then you are already in too deep… Hear, hear Titleist 910D3 Aldila RIP 60
Titleist 910Fd Aldila RIP 60
Titleist 909H Adilda Voodoo
Titleist 710 AP1 Nippon NS Pro 105T
Vokey Spin Milled Oil Can 52, 56, 60
Scotty Cameron Studio Select Newport
Pro V1x Baby bonus, new house bonus, time off with baby bonus, wedding gifts of cash, don’t ppl take responsibility for their own lives anymore. if you can’t afford it don’t have it, simple. I will break 90 this year. Tol, it becomes fun when the cost of living has changed ever so slightly since you first landed in Oz? are the prices of stuff similar? Stuff like luxury items like petrol or a train ticket to town, stuff like a 800sqm block of land? They are al the same as what they were back then aren’t they?
You’d be happy for your son, and his children to grow up without any assistance like you mentioned wouldn’t you? Or are they correct in raking responsibility for themselves and pay what you had to when you came here ???..... Have you come here to play Jesus, with the leopards in your head
My son has been raised to believe he is responsible for himself, we never asked for or received any assistance, if we could not afford it we went without, we saved and purchased when we could. Wages have kept in touch with inflation so things are still affordable, the only thing driving inflation is greed ppl wanting everything now and not wanting to save and wait, the more ppl wanting NOW drives up prices.
When we came to Australia we paid our own fares. We purchased a run down cottage in the UK, stripped it from floor to ceiling and renovated it, this was our stake for Australia. We started out by buying a small not too good house, saved and upgraded, we could see the potential in Australia but we were realistic, we walked first. The problem today is they want it now, new cars, new house, new everything, and to answer your question, yes, I would be pleased with my son if he did not claim assistance because he has not earned it and does not deserve it.
My job when we first came was not well paid and I have never been in a position to waste money, having had two situations that made finances hard but having a wife that could budget under extremes has made life easier, we could afford one child so that is what we had, it’s called being realistic.
I will break 90 this year.
It is NOT my age.
It is NOT for 9 holes.
I demand to be reinstated as reserve moderator(unofficial)
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So much bitterness from all the old diggers on here, oh so much bitterness…. Have you come here to play Jesus, with the leopards in your head
No bitterness bump just sorrow for the we deserve everything now brigade.
I will break 90 this year.
It is NOT my age.
It is NOT for 9 holes.
I demand to be reinstated as reserve moderator(unofficial)
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Multiplied by CPI index (averaged) x 19 years, I reckon he owes you $517.47 Goldmember. Runner up (with Mark Gibson), 3 legged race, North Ainslie Primary School athletics carnival, 1966.
Cheers Tricky…..split it with ya.
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So much bitterness from all the old diggers on here, oh so much bitterness…. Have you come here to play Jesus, with the leopards in your head No bitterness bump just sorrow for the we deserve everything now brigade. I will break 90 this year.
who are responsibile for teaching the “we deserve everything brigade?”
Your son is not included in that because you taught him correctly. so obviously all the rest if us who deserve everything now were not taught correctly by our parents, right?
or is it more fair to say that we have chosen to ignore everything our parents have taught us and feel we have the right to have everything given to us without working for it?
all this now days because some couples don’t want three toasters….
Have you come here to play Jesus, with the leopards in your head
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So much bitterness from all the old diggers on here, oh so much bitterness…. Have you come here to play Jesus, with the leopards in your head No bitterness bump just sorrow for the we deserve everything now brigade. I will break 90 this year. who are responsibile for teaching the “we deserve everything brigade?”
Your son is not included in that because you taught him correctly. so obviously all the rest if us who deserve everything now were not taught correctly by our parents, right?
or is it more fair to say that we have chosen to ignore everything our parents have taught us and feel we have the right to have everything given to us without working for it?
all this now days because some couples don’t want three toasters…. Have you come here to play Jesus, with the leopards in your head
I don’t know your position on this but it is a little more than wanting cash at a wedding, this is just IMO the tip of the now ppl. when we married we instructed ppl not to buy presents, we wanted to get married so why should our wants impact financially on others.
You are correct by saying some think it is their right to hand outs when they have not earned it, I have met many of them in my volunteer work. there are the genuine ppl who are victims of circumstance and some who consider it is their right to not work but still live the good life, many of these have children from multiple partners and consider it is their right to be looked after even though they have never and will never contribute to the country.
All this from wedding gifts. And what is wrong with three toasters?
I will break 90 this year.
It is NOT my age.
It is NOT for 9 holes.
I demand to be reinstated as reserve moderator(unofficial)
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